Benefits but No Commitment

As a youth pastor I tell students that the benefits of a sexual relationship must come in a committed relationship or elese the benefits are really not benefits at all. This is truly a counter-cultural message. It seems everywhere you look people want the benefits without commitment, and this phenominom is not just relegated to the world of dating relationships, it happens in all relationships, even relationships in the church. No wander it so hard for our students these days!